While we all know that great style is ageless and great fashion choices are always on trend, many women worry about how to dress as they age, and what clothing is age-appropriate for nights out.
Why is this? Maybe it's because I work in fashion, but I truly feel that women are in their prime as they age. As women get older, they often gain confidence in every aspect of life, be it motherhood, the workplace, and of course, style. Women know what suits them by the time they hit 40; they are aware of their body shape and will have mastered various tricks of the trade, making them feel good in their clothing choices.
And let's not forget that some of the most stylish women in the world are in their 40s and smashing the chic list; from Kim Kardashian, Sienna Miller, and Beyonce, to the UK's very own Princess of Wales.
© Getty ImagesI've had lots of questions in my 'Ask Laura' inbox about what to wear for an evening out when you reach the big 4-0, so I decided to discuss this with a team of styling experts who lifted the lid on how to dress to impress.
© FilmMagicStylist Matilda Stanley is all about the tailoring, with a hint of leopard print for good measure.
Tailored trousers
"When it comes to going out, I think a pair of classic tailored trousers in black or dark grey will always make a great base for an outfit.
The fitted shape will feel a little more polished than jeans and will add a smarter feel to so many items."
Leopard print
Matilda adds: "For me, leopard print is always a go-to for after hours. It’s a timeless pattern, yet it still feels very fresh and fun, and it’s far more wearable than you might expect.
Whether you wear your wild cat spots on a blouse or a simple T-shirt, when tucked into your tailored bottoms, you’ll have a winning evening-ready ensemble that can be finished with a pair of chunky heels or fuss-free ballet pumps."
Celebrity stylist Ellis Ranson advises that you need to make current trends work for you, and not follow the crowd. "When dressing in your 40s, it’s about finding the right mix of style and not following the same trends as Gen Zs, which is tricky as we all shop in the same stores."
Invest in a blazer
The fashionista explains: "A blazer can make every outfit look chic and styled.
Your seamstress (dry cleaners) should be your best friend; I always recommend having your pieces fitted in your wardrobe. Having clothes that don’t fit or aren’t ironed or steamed can make your whole outfit look unpolished and messy. Opt for quiet luxury."
Comfort is key
Stylist Natalie Rose has some amazing takeaway tips that can carry you throughout your 40s. "I would always advise my clients to think about comfort, as if you're not comfortable, then it shows! Personally, I don't want anything too tight from bust down - you want to eat and drink with ease!"
© Getty ImagesElasticated waist
"Try elasticated waistbands - these also add definition to your silhouette without trying too hard and allow you to move," Natalie adds.
A defined dress
"A dress would always be my go-to; something cinched in around the waist or under the bust line with a flow beneath for ultra comfort.
Super easy to change its look with a biker or denim jacket," the stylist suggests.
Tulle Skirt
Get your Carrie Bradshaw on, ladies, and opt for a ballerina skirt.
Natalie explains: "I love a tulle skirt for effortless glamour. An elasticated waistband giving you some shape, and you can dress it down with a t-shirt for that BBQ with friends."
Glam up with accessories
Natalie adds: "Don't forget accessories - they can really change a look.
Layered necklaces with a plain V-neck t-shirt or a dramatic earring with your hair in a sleek ponytail.
Even a sparkle from your clutch can add that extra touch you may be looking for. Give yourself some time, have a look in your wardrobe, what could you possibly make work but only with a small new addition, such as a necklace."
